shorty #1
you value only what you put your efforts into.
relationships, work, mindset, body, daily habits — anything you’ve build.
at the same time:
(1) something great might come to your life just because.
will you appreciate that? sure.
will it be the same feeling as something you made? no.
i think those feelings differ as “joyful” (w/o efforts) VS “meaningful” (with efforts).
(2) not every thing you put your efforts into will feel valuable.
can you waste your time on things you don’t need? sure.
just try to minimise them. for that you’ll need to know what you want. heh.